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1. Showdown: I vs. Me
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3. New half-day writing-essentials course
Hi,
A lady from a major bank wrote to me recently asking if I’d help her settle a $50 bet she had with her workmate about “I” vs. “me.” Which do you think is right?
- Box a few rounds with Tyson and I
- Box a few rounds with Tyson and me
Most people in my courses think “I” would win the round. But they’re wrong; “me” is the champ here. (So was the lady from the bank – she won her bet.)
But look out! “I” hasn’t thrown in the towel yet! Which of these is right?
- Tyson and I boxed a few rounds
- Tyson and me boxed a few rounds
With a sharp uppercut “I” knocks out “me” and wins!
Punch drunk? Confused? Here’s how to tell when to use
“I” vs. “me.”
The quick way: remove the other person and see if it still makes sense. So, “Box a few rounds with Tyson and I,” becomes, “Box a few rounds with I,” which is obviously wrong. Then you’d know it should be, “Box a few rounds with Tyson and me.” (Prove it works for yourself: try the same rule on “Tyson and me boxed a few rounds.”)
The technical way: it depends on whether the pronoun [I or me] is acting as the subject or the object of the sentence. [The subject is what does the action; the object is what the action is done to.] “I” can only be used as the subject of a sentence; “me” can only be used as the object of a sentence. Ditto for she/her, he/him, we/us, etc.
You’ve been saved by the bell! Now you know when to use “I” or “me” you can replace your mouthguard, climb back in the ring and sock it to ’em!
Have a happy, safe Christmas,
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